by Paul Elmore | Aug 13, 2020 | Podcast
Believe it or not, and despite our best efforts, some people have told us they really don’t like our podcast. But it’s probably not for the reason you’re thinking. If you want to find out why, check out this week’s episode of the Secure...
by Paul Elmore | Aug 10, 2020 | Podcast
When you’re in a difficult marriage, one of the hardest decisions you face is whether to separate to continue to stay together. Hurt feelings, constant conflict, intense emotions… all of these make the decision even harder. In this episode of the Secure...
by Paul Elmore | Aug 3, 2020 | Podcast
Fighting with your husband or wife is hard enough. But when they threaten you with divorce, your survival brain kicks in and it’s a thousand times harder to resolve the issue you’re fighting over. In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast,...
by Paul Elmore | Jul 27, 2020 | Podcast
When something goes wrong for your spouse, do you feel yourself bracing because you know it’s just a matter of time before you end up being blamed for it? This can be an exhausting and demoralizing way to relate to your husband or wife. In today’s episode...
by Paul Elmore | Jul 23, 2020 | Podcast
When you’re hurt, finding forgiveness isn’t always easy. You want your husband or wife to admit they were wrong, that they understand how you feel, and demonstrate genuine remorse and contriteness. Unfortunately, their survival brain makes it really hard...