When something goes wrong for your spouse, do you feel yourself bracing because you know it’s just a matter of time before you end up being blamed for it? This can be an exhausting and demoralizing way to relate to your husband or wife.

In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, Shannon and I talk through our own struggle with blaming each other for our own misfortunes and what we’re doing to be more grace-filled in our day-to-day relationship.