Do you know what you should be avoiding when looking for your future spouse? Most people don’t so they base their decisions on the spark and sizzle (is there lots of chemistry) or if the person makes them happy. Those things might seem ideal, but the reality is they just cannot sustain a long term relationship or marriage.

In this week’s episode we talk about four major red flags to look for when choosing your spouse. They are some of the more important things you should be aware of, and probably avoid, in a potential mate when it comes to personality, behavior, and history. These red flags make marriage unsustainable, or at the very least, incredibly difficult. They are not necessarily deal-breakers but we want you to really understand what it will cost you if you choose to go into a relationship with someone that carries one or more of these red flags.