Correcting your spouse… always pointing out what they’ve done or said is wrong… is one of the best ways to produce bitterness, resentment, and defensiveness in your marriage. And of course, YOU never like being corrected.

In this episode, Shannon and I discuss how we’ve slipped into this toxic habit and discuss a new “experiment” we’re trying to see if we can change HOW we speak to each other in order to reduce triggering a defensive response from each other.