by Paul Elmore | Oct 7, 2021 | Podcast
Shannon has this annoying habit of constantly asking me questions no matter how big or small of a decision I’m making. For a long time, it felt like she was criticizing me (or at least doubting the decisions I made). I’ve heard from many other couples that this same...
by Paul Elmore | Sep 28, 2021 | Podcast
When men have strong feelings, it usually shows up as anger. Their team scores the winning touchdown… they’re fist bumping and slapping their friends. They smash their finger with a hammer… they holler and swear. They feel stressed… they start barking...
by Paul Elmore | Sep 20, 2021 | Podcast
In today’s episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’re going to pick on my wife for a little bit. Not because I’m mean (really, I’m not!) but because the one question she struggles to ask is the same question that most people struggle to ask even though it’s...
by Paul Elmore | Sep 17, 2021 | Podcast
Do you find yourself stuck in tiny power struggles day-in-and-day-out? Do small decisions you have to make with your spouse end up in conflict and hours of disconnection? If so, then you’re going to want to listen to the simple trick you can do that will reduce...
by Paul Elmore | Sep 5, 2021 | Podcast
In most of our podcast episodes we talk about some random fight we’ve had within the last few days. In this episode, we conveniently ended up having the disagreement just as the tape was starting to roll. Even though it’s not easy, we thought we’d...
