You hear people say all the time “I’ve fallen out of love”. Worse yet, they use that reason to end their marriage, hoping to “fall in love” with someone else.

That’s not how “love” is supposed to work. Feeling of love are supposed to go from heated, passionate, crazy-stupid attraction to the sustainable warmth of intimacy and companionship.

In this episode of the Secure Marriage Podcast, we’ll be looking at why so many people find that so frustrating and disappointing and what the healthy version of love over long periods of time is supposed to look like.